Be proactive person

Have you read or heard about the seven habits of highly effective people? It's created by stephen covey, this book is really famous from the first era and it includes to the best seller. Now, here I want to tell and share one of the seven habits book and the book first introduce the concept of paradigm shift and helps the reader understand that different perspective exist. For example that two people can see the same thing and yet differ with each other on this premise it introduces the seven habits in a profer order.

each chapter is dedicated to one of the habits, which are represented by the following imperatives, the first three habit surrounded moving from dependence to independence

your life doesn't just happen wheather you know it or not its carefully designed by you. The choices, after all are yours. You choose happiness, you choose sadness, you choose success, you choose failure, you choose courage or you choose fear. Just remember every moment and every situation, provides a new choices, and in doing also, it gives you a perfect opportunity to do things differently to produce more positive results.

Habit one is be proactive, be proactive is about taking responsibility for your life, you can't keep blaming everything on your parents, grandparents or your friends. Proactive people recognize that they are respon-able. They don't blame genetics, condition or conditioning for their behavior. They know they choose their behavior.

Another one is reactive people, reactive people on the other hand are often affected by their physical environment. They find external sources to blame for their attitude, performances and they blame the weather, they are angry and say things that they regreted. For an example “if I study hard, I certainly won't get angry from our mother..” that is regret and actually we have to be proactive rather than reactive.

The conclusion of this being proactive is all the emotion and mind are in our control. Just you that can decide it. In other words, you're the leader for yourself.  

                  

                                            Why we should study psychology?

psychology it not only learned by someone who wants to become a psychologist alone but for prospective teachers as well, because that is where a teacher has an important role such as; a teacher must be able to understand the difference of learners and teachers also have to deal with a group of students in the classroom with caution, because of the characteristics of each student is different. Therefore it is very important to understand the different characteristics of the students at various stages of growth and development in order to create a learning process effective and efficient. Educational psychology can help teachers and prospective teachers to understand the different characteristics of these students.

Another one that is, we learn the importance of child psychology, why?

because of child psychology, Talking about the problem of children will not be exhausted, sometimes making our parents become confuse and panic.

Each stage will have a positive effects and negative effects. At an early age, many things that attract the attention of children that makes them want to always try even though it is dangerous for the child's own self. At this stage and the role of adult supervision is essential. Provide support and guidance both in children is the right way. According to Erikson, do not give excessive criticism or advice because it can make children grow up with a sense of doubt on its own merits.

For example, if your child is crying for hours without stopping the cry, parents should be smart to cope with their own emotions. Actually, parents do not need to be panic when the child is crying, should remain calm and not be panic is the right attitude of parents to child. According to Hans Grothe, a child psychologist from Germany, the most frequent crying child is age 2 to 3 years, where the cries of children with regard to their own age.

                                                                By : Aisah Siti Sofiah

                                                          Date : 14^th of November 2015

Quote :

“In order to succeed, we must first believe that we can”

                         By : Nikos Kazantzakis

Response :

Everyone wants to be success in doing or reaching something that they want, include me. Certainly I want to be success and we must have a ripe mind to reach it. Firstly we have to believe to ourself, on everything we must be sure that we can do what we want to do and we have to be positive thinking. For an example, when you are studying math you think that you can't do it or answer the sheet because if we think like that “what's all in our mind, will response by our action”. So we think that we can't do the question and finally we throw the sheet, being angry to ourself and we think we can't. Actually we can do it if we believe to ourself.

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I have a blank papper, I write about my commitment on it. One of my commitment is toil. Someone comes and that someone makes me vex. Suddenly that someone takes a lighter and kindle my papper. Oh my godness, that is so terrible.

• Blank : Not written or printed on
• Toil : Work hard
• Vex : Make (someone) feel annoyed, frustrated or worried
• Kindle : Light on, set on fire
• Terrible : Very bad

Quote :

“Sometimes later, become never”

By : Gori {at university from Bandung}

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Response :

Most of people just say what they want to do and they postpone it. They put in other time, other time and they don't do it. For an example, today we want to pray Dhuha at 08 o'clock then when the time that we have to pray we postpone it again and finally become never. Because everything what we can do today don't put until tomorrow. Inside of human's heart, certainly want to do a kindness but devil always disturb us to do it. Maybe so that's why, the one who created this quote say that “Sometimes later, become never is equals devil's trick power and manu people has cheated by devil. For another example, when we want to charitable even at night we have said to our heart that we'll give a charity but when the time has come; there the place that devil starts to forbid us. Sometimes we feel lazy to do it and possion feeling as well come to attack our heart. If we can't control it, possion will make us suffer (more lazy). Agree with Surah Yusuf; ayat 53 :

Ayat; 53: “And I don't (declare) that myself is free (from mistakes), because in truth, passion always motivates to crime, except (passion) that has given by my god. In truth, my god is a great pardon and a great loving”

But we can prevent it all, provided when we want to do an advantage must be synchronize with a strong intention, keep away from indolent nature and don't care about possion and devil, just be of the opinion by the rush wind.

Quote :

“Go for it now. The future is promised to no one”

                       By: Wayne Dyer

Response :

As long as we delay our job or duty that we have to do, as long as we will not get the result and it will be hard to get success. For an example, Mr.Aang informs us “on tuesday we'll have guesses, we have to make an event. So who wants to be the coordinator for the event?” actually that is the right time to take chances, chance won't come twice as well, even there's someone gets that chance but it's not really good like the first chance. To be a person, we have to be active, brave and do an act because if we're just silent we won't change anything, our position and our studying will not increase. If we have a desire, we have to struggle to make it comes true as long as we can do and believe to ourself about what we have desire/dream, don't forget to keep praying to god. Certainly it will become true if we don't delay what we have to do.

Quote :

“A promise made is a debt unpaid”

Response :

Promise is easy to say but it's hard to pay because promise is a debt that we have to pay. But sometimes will always there's an obstacle to disturb us when we want to pay the debt like we are getting sick, our neighbor passes away, and others. Human's life of course will there's a commitment and interaction with others. Except, if the human decorates theirself with a good attitude and the important attitude is to deliver/keep promises. So, pay your promise and promise will ask the responsibility in the beyond by god (Allah).

Quote :

    “The starting of all achievement is desire”

                      By : Napoleon Hill

Response :

If we want to do something, certainly we start from our heart and if we don't do anything from heart, be better we don't do anything. Because that all will be wasted and all your struggle will not be useful because you don't start it from heart. Each of human of course has a desire, like I want to be a doctor or I want to be a midwife and most of people will be angry if they don't achieve their desire. This quote describes anything that we got start from our desire and I agree to this quote because however that something we got certainly start from desire, it means we won't get anything if we don't have desire from ourself to act. Like our president says (Pak Dodo) “Let's work” means “Come on, shows your desire!”

Quote :

“The roots of education is bitter, but the fruit is sweet”

                               By : Aristotle

Response :

Sometimes we always feel that every our effort in reaching our dream is a fact. Will we reach our dream or not? Or it's just an empty hope in order to survive in a true life we trust. For an example, we are under a big mango's tree, high and luxuriant then we want to get the fruit, first we have to climb. To climb its, we have to be patient, struggle and believe we can get it. The same thing like dream we want to reach, when we are being struggle of course we will fail and it's natural because it's a part of struggle process and a lesson. From a failure we can take the philosopy and it will be our new motivation. If we plant a plant, it will grow up and come fruits, like we struggle for reaching our dream now, it's not problem if we face a lot of challenges even it will be a good part from your struggle. When you get success, you will feel the result from all your struggle to achieve your aim.

Quote :

“The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend”

By : Abraham Lincoln

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Response :

To apologize an enemy is not easy like we invert our palm hand, we need a well strategy, because sometimes our enemy is often to see our weakness. How cruel is our enemy but we must be able to respect him/her and when she/he shows us his/her real character, maybe it'll make him/her think clearly about us. If wee see a nature law, certainly will be there's a (positive+positive=positive), otherwise if law applies to (negative+negative=negative). It's not about mathematic or physic but clearly when a human created as a perfect creatures in the world. In each human's life has own majority and a fault, but we can fix that all to be perfect. So what happen to our enemy?...yaa...one more time I just want to say that (negative+negative) of course (negative), instead (min negative). Oh god...thank you, you have acquanted me with your love (prophet Muhammad), because a thousand of negative thing that he got and a thousand of positive thing as well that he'll give or he has. So, I think it's enough and my duty to give responses to this quote. I am sure, you all know what does this writing means.

Quote :

“Attitude is a little thing that makes us a big defference”

By : Winston Churchill

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Response :

Attitude is not a little thing but attitude is a huge thing because each religion was born by one mission to guide and change human's attitude. So I disagree if attitude is a little thing. Prophet Muhammad S.A.W was born to fix human's attitude and he is number one if attitude is one of his duty that he holds. Whatever that he holds and teach is a beautiful thing for us. So I suggest “Attitude is not a little thing but attitude is a huge thing that can change us a huge difference on many people.”

Quote :

  “Success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom”

                          By : George S. Patton

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Response :

Reaching our dream is like a ball bounces because as hard we reflect the ball, so high it will bounce. For an example if we want to be successful, we must have a big struggle to reach it. A struggle that starts from zero until we increase to be successful person. We need a hardwork, consistent, patient and submite (tawakal), with that all we'll know how far we struggle and there will seem our success. But if we are struggling to achieve our success, certainly we'll fall down and in this condition we have to back our spirit for our future.

“Fall down doesn't mean we are fail, but fall is the best experience that make us more go forward and consistent to achieve our success in the future.”

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    “It's better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not”

                                                        By : Andre Gide

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Response :

Most of people hate by others is a smart people because there's another smart people comparables them. In truth, it's better we become ordinary person but has an excellent soul, honest, not arrogant and not show off than an excellent person, arrogant because of the fashion and the smartness, apparently the soul is just so-so and a coward soul. There's a person has a bad fashion and not good to become our friend as well, but the heart and the attitude make all people pay attention to that person. That's all depend on us, how we walk on our friend relationship because each person has a different characteristic. For an example; this person is similiar to be hated, mock and bully by the friends. Even they will be ashamed of that person in public but because of that person has an excellent soul to oppose and finally they feel shy as well. From this moment, all people can evaluate and compare which person is just so-so but ahs an excellent soul and not arrogant. More over if we want to have a friend, we want that person has a good morals, polite and has a good fashion looking, but when they get them, we feel regret and angry because we choose a wrong person to be our friend and they disappoint us. A person who has an attitude like that one is really easy to fell because of the arrogance and like to show off.

Quote:

“You're never too old to set another goal to dream a new dream”

                                    By : C.S. Lewis

Response :

To reach our dream is not depends on our age, everyone can have a dream, a goal or everything and for someone who has dream, the time won't limited. If we want to achieve our another goal set to dream a new dream. But it's all depends on us, can we manage our time for the next life, how will our life go in the future?

The second, we have to hardwork

The third, we have to consistent on it. Certainly, when we are being consistent, all disaster will come to test our patient, how strong we are to face it all the challenge. The last one is always pray to god, because only him know the way about our dream. Can we achieve it or not? We have to ask him what we want? If we always hardwork and big think, we won't achieve our dream without our pray.

                                                           

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• Quote:

“It doesn't matter how slowly you go as long as you don't stop”

• Response:

Whoever we are, certainly we want to know about our life and what will we be in the future. We don't know how about our life and our dream, that's all depends on your struggling and processing now. Everything needs a process, struggle and sacrifice. How slow we struggle to reach our dream is not a problem, the main point, we never stop and never give up.

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Quote :

“Forget the past that made you cry and focus on the present that completes your smile

because Allah (god) always know the best for you

By : Mutia

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Response :

Because if you're not focus on the present, you'll stuck in your past life. You won't be able to see how is your life in the future and your life has controled by all things that make you cry. For now you just have to think and focus on your present life. Your life now is your life in the future, so it's really important to be cheerful, spirit and struggle in our studying. God is always beside someone who is excating a knowledge, just him know the best for you and what will you be in your next life. Make sure that you always believe in god, who helps you and accompany you when you're being lonely. Forget something that made us cry it doesn't mean we don't take any lesson from that moment. For example when you have problems with your parents about your attitude to them and you just have to realize yourself what mistake have you made to them. Another example like you say a rude words or “ah” when they ask you to do something they want. It's really hurt their heart, but from that all, you can make a new life from your mistake and forget it. The other one is, you must to be like a driver and you must focus on the way you go. And also you must understand what is behind you, maybe there's a cat or hole on the back. You can take the lesson and don't forget about your past moment because all people are just human being. We'll not forget everything that happended to us.

• Quote:

“I don't trust words, I trust action”

• Response:

Too many people just talk and talk, they put words by words to be a sentence and share their talking to others. Because if we just talk to everyone then we never do anything from our talking, it's better we become a silent person than many talk.

We have to do an action to make all people believe on what are we talking about and they will trust us because we do the action.

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• Quote:

“If it doesn't challenge you, it won't change you”

• Response:

Because if we do something for reach our dream or something else, it will not be good if it doesn't challenge yourself. Everything will not change you without challenges in your life, include yourself. It won't change you if it doesn't challenge you.

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• Quote:

“Only the broken hearted know the truth about love”

~Cooley~

• Response:

Because the broken hearted has more experience about love, it's like we want to try some foods and if we haven't tried we won't know what is the taste. Same thing like love, if we haven't felt how the broken hearted is we won't know the true love is.

From the broken hearted, we can know how to get a loyal couple and ready to be with us forever. Also, love your parents, children and you. Because if our couple just love to us, so he/she doesn't love and care to our parents. We have to be smart and careful to choose the best one and who will be our couple.

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• Quote:

“Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead”

• Response:

Because ir there's no love in this world, all people will not understand and won't know how to love each other. For an example, what has god created in this world, love our family, friends and include your health. If there's no love, I won't life, won't feel how beautiful, challenge life is and know you.

Will we find our life without love?

This life will not be harmony and fantastic without love, it will be an empty room and fake hope if nothing love in our heart to reach all what we want. And also, it's like we plant a plant and we never water it, so it will not grow up and will not give a cheer color but it will die. The same thing like love, if we don't start to do something from our heart, the result will not be good and satisfied.

The main point,love all things in this world so the someone who is in heaven will love you. That's all come from your heart, if no, you will not know how life and love is.

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• Quote:

“Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself”

• Response:

Some people think changing the world can only by the smartest person, being famous and being cool. Just one thing that can change the world is you, because the first thing like change yourself is the most important. Sometimes some people think that you have to have a large amount of money to change it. The main point, no one can change the world before you think to change yourself.

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• Quote:

“It doesn't matter how slowly you go as long as you don't stop”

• Response:

Whoever we are, certainly we want to know about our life and what will we be in the future. We don't know how about our life and our dream, that's all depends on your struggling and processing now. Everything needs a process, struggle and sacrifice. How slow we struggle to reach our dream is not a problem, the main point, we never stop and never give up.

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• Quote:

“Cofidence is not they will like me

Confidence is I'll be okay if they don't”

• Response:

To be ourself and be confidence is an important thing that we have in our ownself. We just can be ourself and thierself as well. Don't depends on other people for everything, we have to believe and be responsibility for what have we choose and what have you done.    

• Quote:

“If there's no struggle, there is no progress”

• Response:

Many people in this era doesn't want to struggle to reach all what they want, so that's why plenty of people cannot reach their desire because they are lazy to do everything that important for their life and their future.

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• Quote:

“I believe if you keep your faith, you keep your trust, you keep the right attitude, if you're grateful, you'll see god open up new doors.”

• Response:

Everytime we have to keep our faith, our trust and our right attitude to god. We just believe in god and believe that god always listening, helping and understanding us. It's impossible if he lets us in suffer condition. Certainly he will help us if we always pray to him. We have to grateful on everything, believe and love him, so he will love us as well.

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• Quote:

“Smile, it's free therapy”

• Response:

Yes, I agree with it. Because smile shows an expressions. Also can make a situation becomes warm, peace and full of harmonies. With smile, we can get many friends, change our feeling of we are being sad and make our feeling better.

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• Quote:

“Don't walk behind me; I may not lead.

Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow

Just walk beside me and be my friend.”

• Response:

According to me, friend is someone special in my life because everytime of course I will need a friend when I am being sad or having problem and I can share one of my problem and maybe my friend or our friends are able to help to solve the problem.

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• Quote:

“Get up, stand up, stand up for your right. Get up, stand up, stand up, don't give up the fight.”

(Bob Marley)

Response:

It tells me how to always get up and stand up from my sadness. Bob Marley said that I have to be spirit and stand up for my rights, the important thing that I never give up the fight between all bad things that come and attack my struggling to reach my dreams.

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• Quote:

“Where there is love, there is life.”

• Response:

Love each other is really important thing for a human and especially in our family because we can find and feel the true love with them. We can feel a gatherness and life with them.

(That is the true love)  

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   Yesterday Mr.Aang, Umi and I ate in a simple eatery, it was free because that was the first eatery who had just started to sell and that was the first time I could eat foods but free. It was a promotion from the owner of it so we didn't have to give a fund or money to pay, then we started to eat. Mr.Aang ordered “Soto Makassar” and I ordered a green banana, it used an ice inside, Umi ordered meatball but Umi asked the seller to wrapped it for her. There Mr.Aang ate a cracker so he mixed it together with the Soto Makassar. Actually I wanted to eat crackers too but my palate was being scar. I continued my eating by drinking a glass of water, when I wanted to take the glass, it was like an altitude because it was so high. Finally we went home, in the car I was wakeful.

• Eatery : A restaurant where people are served food
• Fund : To provide money for (something)
• Palate : The sense of taste/the top part of the inside of your mouth; the roof of your mouth
• Altitude : The height of something (such as airplane) above the lefel of the sea
• Wakeful : Not sleeping or not able to sleep

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Yesterday I saw a brook fell down from the house roof. It was so extol me because I didn't know if it would fall. After that I went to store and I brought candies. I didn't want to buy a lot of candies because I am miserly. When I was on my journey, I met a little girl. She talked something, it was so lucid and she concluded her talking smiley.

• Brook : A small stream
• Extol : To praise (someone or something happen)
• Miserly : Hatting to spend money
• Lucid : Very clear and easy to understand
• Conclude : End, decide, finish

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Ahmad is misfortune boys, he always gets a bird dirt on his head before he goes out from his hostel, everytime he cleans it untill he feels weary. Finally his friends come to his house, apparently they are his gank friend and he is a vanguard of his gank. Suddenly his friends see a dirt that has stayed on his head, they just laugh and he says “Why you guys are so glance?”

• Misfortune : Bad luck
• Hostel : A shelter for homeless people
• Weary : Very tired, especially after working hard for a long time
• Vanguard : The group of people who are the leaders
• Glance : To look at quickly, a quick look

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Twig is a thin wood, it's easy to burn. I ignite it, after that I cook a glass of water on the unique stove and I pollute the unique stove. For me that is vast, because I prefer to pollute all places in the kitchen. When I am there, I find a ruler and it's so slender. I bring it and make a fiction story about the ruler in my dairy book.

• Ignite : Set on fire
• Pollute : Make dirty
• Vast : Very great, enermous
• Slender : Long and thin; limited; slight
• Fiction : That which is imagined or made up

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Kitten is a shy animal and they are discreet. Most of them live on the street and sometimes at home. When they are being at home, I see another people that I don't know and that was a boy. Apparently he usurps the kitten and bring them. I think he wants to slay them. Actually he is bland to them, he just wants to take them. After that he gives the kitten back but they were died, so he directly vacates the owner's house.

• Discreet : Not likely to be seen or noticed by many people
• Usurp : To take and keep (something, such as power) in a forceful of violent way and especially without the right to do as
• Slay : To kill (someone)
• Bland : Not interesting or exciting
• Vacate : To leave (a seat, hotel room, etc)

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I have boys friend, his name is Wahyu. Everytime I play with him and I always tell about my feeling to him because he is credible. He is humble and he is earnest as well in making a friend with me. One day, we daydream that we want to generate a big spirit for make our country, Indonesia go forward but one thing that I don't like from him is, when he has a new style of his hair, he always shows his vain to me.

• Credible : Able to believe; reasonable to trust or believe
• Humble : Not proud, not thinking of yourself as better than other people
• Earnest : Serious and sincere, not lighthearted of playfull
• Generate : To produce (something) or cause (something) to be produced
• Vain : Too proud of your own appearance; abilities, achievement, etc

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We have one baby in our boarding school and everyday he always cries. He cries loudly while sobbing. One of the girl is being in hurry to make a milk and she steeps the stare. Actually the girls are confuse, why does he always cry? We just think”maybe he is touring with someone who has a scary face.” Then, our grandmother comes too see us and she bestows us a necklace, she says “give this necklace to him, so he won't cry anymore.” Finally we give its and we are waiting for him, will he cry again or no? Apparently, the necklace doesn'tn work and he is still constant.

• Sob : To cry noisily while taking in short, sudden breath
• Steep : Going up or down very quickly/ very high
• Tour : A journey through the different parts of a country region, etc
• Bestow : To give (something) as a gift or honor
• Constant : Staying the same; not changing

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My life is fluster, I just follow where the wind will bring my life to and it's just accompanied by a miniature happiness, because I am solitary. All about my life is prominent by my friends and it's a big menace for me and I am afraid if they will tell numerous thing about it to others.

• Miniature : Represented on a small scale
• Solitary : Alone, single, only
• Prominent : Very well known and important
• Menace : Something that is likely to cause harm; threat
• Numerous : Very ,any; several

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One day, there's a beautiful duckling is playing on the street and she meets a naughty children there, they throw stones and kick her. She says to her heart “oh no, you all are inhumane!” after that, a cool cabby comes and stop them to hurt her. He brings her to his taxi and there's a bulldog insides. The bulldog welcomes her when she gets into the car, but the bulldog's barking agigates her and suddenly she finds an abacus there.

• Duckling : A young duck
• Inhumane : Not kind or gentle to people or animals; not humane
• Cabby : A taxi driver
• Agigate : To disturb, excite or anger (someone)
• Abacus : Used for counting

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Yesterday, Koko entered to jail and the police sent him to metropolis, it was in Russia. He sold narcotics to all teenagers in Jakarta and all the society have consensus that Koko might bring to jail immediately because he would sell more narcotics if the police didn't send him to jail. When they arrived in jail, the police asked him “why did you sell narcotics to all teenagers?” he was just silent, apparently he had an illness and he didn't know as well what illness did he have?

A few months later, he was free from jail but when he was on the way, he forgot the way that he might go, he lapsed of his memory. Finally he realized that he met an objectionable person when he was on his journey. That objectionable person were bad boys, suddenly they beat Koko until he didn't feel paralyze.

• Metropolis : A very large or important city
• Consensus : A general agreement about something; an idea or opinion that is shared by all the people in a group
• Immediately : Now; as soon as
• Lapsed : No longer believing or following the teachings of religion, no longer effective or valid
• Objectionable : Not good or right; causing people to be offended

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I met a kook person on the way and he's a boy. When I look at him, he is holding a yen on his hand while crying and his face is lachrymose. Actually his crying is burden me because his voice is really loud. Sometimes I am emotion jag if I hear someone's crying, moreover this is a kook person and it's so inveigh me.

• Kook : A crazy or eccentic person
• Yen : A unit money in Japan
• Lachrymose : Tearful
• Jag : 1) A drinking bout 2) A period of indulgence in a particular
• Inveigh : Attack violently or bitterly in words

Yesterday I found a large amount of kindling in the field and I saw porcupines there. They scarced me by the thorns on their body. They came closer to me and apparently they wanted to embrace me. I heard the beat of my heart get galloping so I ran far away from them. Finally I had an idea that I would like to bind them on the tree and hang its, but one of them had a sharp sight and ran away.

• Embrace : To hold someone in your arms as a way of expressing love or friendship
• Galloping : Quickly developing or increasing
• Bind : To tie or wrap (something) with rope, string, etc.
• Kindling : Dry twigs, pieces of paper, etc. That burn easily and are used to start a fire.
• Sight : The act of seeing someone or something

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Everyday I go to work but my job is really, really dull and everytime I feel bored I just see an anemone beside my office. Then my boss calls me to buy some foods in the market that next to Ojek Parking, actually I don't like to my boss everytime he asks me to go to that market. I feel I wanna angry to him but I detect it from him, it just have to be in my heart and I don't want that he knows if I don't like him. I come back to office and proceed my job. Suddenly I see a big trident fall to garden, apparently someone throws it from up stairs office.

• Dull : Not exciting or interesting
• Anemone : A type of garden plant that has white, purple or red flowers
• Detect : To discover or notice the presence of (something that hard to see & hidden)
• Proceed : To continue to do something
• Trident : A spear that has three points and that looks like a large fork

My friends buy a couple of sport shoes but they look so variety. I observe the shoes, one shoes is bigger and one more is smaller. Finally I ask to my friends, “Why the shoes are so variety?” they said one more shoes is for my younger brother. “Oh my godness”. My younger brother eligibilities it. Unforeseen, there is a government comes to my home and I ask him, “Hello sir, what's happening, until you come to my home?” he says “I am so sorry, I come here because I want to inform you that tommorow this place will be exaggerate, so I hope you will move from this house and as fast as possible, thank you.”

• Variety : A number of collections of different things or people
• Observe : To watch and sometines also listen to (someone or something)
• Eligibility : Able to be chosen for something
• Unforeseen : Unexpected, unanticipated
• Exaggerate : To make (something) larger or bigger than normal

         PROFILE

Hi my name is “Aisah” I am from East Jakarta and I live at Assalam Islamic Borading School-Bogor. I was born in Cianjur, 16^th of November 1998, my hobbies are playing basketball, badminton, volleyball and an instrument music. My dream is I want to be an English Teacher.

Why do I want to be an English Teacher? Because I want to teach the underprivillage children and for the someone who doesn't go to school. Then I want to build a free school, so all people doesn't have to pay for the books and the uniform but they will get a schoolarship school. Because the school and the education in Indonesia is really hard to get and find, more over a schoolarship. All teachers in Indonesia just need money, money and money. They don't care the progress of the students.

 Ms.Helen

Ms.Helen is special because she is the best and a golden teacher that I never meet before. She teaches an English lesson in our place, Assalam Islamic Boarding School and she has been for a long time here. She is a hardwork teacher and care to everyone. She likes to help each other sincerly, I ask to myself to study seriously with her. A large amount of knowledge that she gave to us and it will not be forgotten by us. But it will be really, really useful for our future. She always supports us to be spirit on our studying and she is our inspiration for our dream.

The first time I met her, I was really afraid and shy. Because I couldn't speak in English and I was just silent when I was studying. But now I can speak English because of her and all teachers who has guided me patiently. Thank you for you all have tought me many things.

 My experience

Visited PBNU Centre

(Central Jakarta)

Yesterday I went to Central Jakarta with Mr.Aang, my five strange friends and two of cool and sweet teachers. We went to there after we finished our class for about 9.30 A.M and we prepared to go to PBNU Centre. There, we watched movies and there were seven movies we watched. All that movie was amazing and super, more over about the Karate one from Aceh and the title was “Inoeng Silat”. After we watched, we discussed together about the movie, we met one of smiley boys and his friend as well. He was Mr.Abah and then we took a picture together.

When we wanted to comeback to our boarding, one of the librarian there gave us books and we got one for each person. I think the book will be really interesting.

                                                        ABDURAHMAN WAHID

Abdurahman Wahid was born at 07 September 1940, in Jambang, East Java, Dutch, East Indies. Colloquially know as Gus Dur was in Indonesian Muslim Religious and Politcal leader who served as the president of the Nahdlatul Ulama (NU) and the founder of the National Awakening Party (PKB).

Wahid was the first elected president of Indonesia after the resignation of Suharto in 1998. His popular nick name, Gus Dur, is drived from Gus, a common honorific for a son of Kyai, from a short-form of Bagus (Handsome lad'in Javanese Language); and Dur, short-form of his name, Abdurahman. He was died at 30 December 2009 and that time his age was 69 years old, the place was in Jakarta, Indonesia.

He was buried in Jombang, East Java, Indonesia. Before he died, he was a religious teacher, politician, but even though he was died, his name is still life till now. Actually he can't see everything normally because he is blind and paralyzed, he got an accident in Toll Of Jagorawi when he wanted to attend Kongres SBSI in Bogor, Gus Dur was the one of Unions Prosperous of Indonesia.

Message:

The body may be faded, but not with all his impressed abd all his message by Gus Dur has vanished, but all the message from Gus Dur will always live in the hearts of the public.

~Love Gus Dur~

“Ketakutanku ketika jatuh cinta”

Some of the girls think that falling in love is just hurt ourselves and love makes us blind as well. Because they're afraid they will always hurt by the boys because of falling in love. They will loose their boyfriend when they look for another girl. But one thing for me when I was afraid to falling in love is an imagination from my brain that I will love and live forever with him. I realize that I am not a perfect girl for him but I always try to be perfect. I don't want to be really love him, because I am afraid that I will loose him forever.

All human doesn't know who is their couple and it will be impossible thing if we know, god only knows our couple

http://www.logikarasa.com

“How to be cool”

Some of the boys want to be a cool man, so they thought that all girls will approach them. The first thing that the boys have to do is to get clean, they have to stay fresh and smelling good for their popularity status. The next one, you can style your hair as you like and it must be tidy.

Except styling your hair, you have to pay attention to your clothes. Other things, you can join a club in school and you can be a basketball player and a lot of girls like to a basketball player or the captain.

http://www.wikihow.com

“How to focus”

To focus in everything is important like foucus doing what we have to do, on study and others. If you're really focus to what you've been aimed, you will get a satisfy result from it. Many people cannot be focus on their life aim or target because almost all people and teenager have focused on their status life but it's not important for them. It's really seldom to find someone who focuses on their life aim and their study. All plan will not be the same thing as your planning if you're not focus.

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“How to do easy arts and crafts with children”

Especially for children and parents, you can teach about arts and crafts to your children and you can enjoy your family's harmony in your home. The first, you can teach the easy arts like drawing, painting and others. Maybe for the craft is like, make a bracelet, key ring and a small bag. It will be useful when they're growing up, they will understand and feel interested to all things what's your children have learned. If they get it all, so you're lucky that your children got understand what you thought them.

http://www.wikihow.com

“How to have fun by yourself”

If you're lonely or feeling bored, we don't need anyone else to occupy our time for us. We can do something fun like taking our pictures for about 10 times or more. We can take a picture of striking image, look for weird people, strange grafiti, pets, flowers and others. After that you can do something else that's according to you is fun.

http://www.wikihow.com

“How to be a good basketball player”

Playing basketball requires natural skills, but you can become a good player if you properly condition your body, practice with the right drills and the mental aspects of the game. First step, you have to improve your offensive play like practice with a circle dribbles . The second, improve your passing ability and the last you have to improve your shooting.

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 “How to solving nervous feeling”

Being nervous for each person is usual and common. Sometimes we feel nervous when we want to do some performance and one thing that we have to do is;

• To solve your nervous, you can take a breath three times and exhale it from your mouth

In other thing, you can pray to god before you perform and read “BISMILLAHIRRAHMAANIRRAHIIM”

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“How to make people around you”

We all want to be liked. If we struggle with feeling confident and comfortable in the presence of others, though, you're not alone. Actually you can learn a few concrete skills and try to practice yourself to be most fun and most confident version of yourself. Learn to act, look, and be the kind of person other people want to be with or we can being fun, so if you seem nervous, you'll make other people nervous too, but if we're relaxed, comfortable in our skin and easy going, other people will feel happy and comfortable to be with us.

http://www.wikihow.com

“Top reason to smile”

Smiling makes us attractive and also change our mood. Sometimes if we are having problem, we are always frowning and being sad because of problem but when you're smiling, all your problem, your bad feeling will loose and back to your real life (not frowning anymore)

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How to have a sense humor

Humor is an attitude that we adopt where we find humor in life instead upset about averything. And also, a sense of humor reduces stress doesn't mean that we're a stand up comedian, but you/we know a bunch of jokes, or offend people by making fun of them.

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 “Elsa's not funny”

Talk about Elsa, I always remember about Frozen's movie and I read some news in Internet that Elsa is not funny. Why she's not funny?

I don't agree with that, because for me Elsa's a kind and friendl girl. Even she doesn't want to hurt other people by her icy hand and she will be really funny too when she is making a joke and laughing together with her sister Anna. More over when they were child...:), they were so cute.

 “ Eat nuts to stay healthy”

Many people have long known that nuts are part of a healthy diet but we can't eat all nuts to get all the benefits. About 10 grams a day is enough to get the full health benefits of nuts and that's about an average-sized handful. If we eat a handful of nuts, it can help us to eat less. So we have to eat a handful of nuts if we want to diet and keep healthy your body.

http://learningenglish.voanews.com

• Quote:

“I don't trust words, I trust action”

• Response:

Too many people just talk and talk, they put words by words to be a sentence and share their talking to others. Because if we just talk to everyone then we never do anything from our talking, it's better we become a silent person than many talk.

We have to do an action to make all people believe on what are we talking about and they will trust us because we do the action.

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